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Get Firefox about me: Jared Lee age: 26 current residence: State College, PA hometown: Cumberland, WI undergrad major: Physics, Gustavus Adolphus College grad program: Meteorology, Penn State University
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One Blog to Bring Them All and in Happy Valley Bind Them
For large portions of 2008 and 2009 I often felt like I was in a bit of a rut. I felt like while I certainly knew a lot of people, and probably had a lot of friends in the modern American definition of the term, but that I didn't have many actual friends. You know, people who you'd spend a good deal of time with and often call up if you wanted to hang out. I felt kind of disconnected from people here at PSU, and that led to me not being nearly as social, and spending lots of nights at home, not really doing a whole lot. I don't know quite how to explain it, but life just wasn't as much fun as it had been my first 2-3 years here. There were several contributing factors to life not being quite as enjoyable, or being frustrated with how my life was going. Many of these factors are related. One factor was quite a few of my friends from Meteorology, with whom I'd often hang out quite a bit, had graduated and moved away. That's just a fact of life when you're a fifth-year grad student, I guess. A second factor was that I've been trying to focus more on my own work, resulting in less "wandering the halls" to go talk to people (or maybe I've wandered the halls less because I know fewer people here). Right along with that, I've been spending increasing amounts of time working not in my office in Walker Building, but in my office in the ARL-Water Tunnel Building, where most of the time I'm the only person in my small, windowless office (for several weeks now I've worked almost exclusively in the WT). Another reason that can't be discounted is that my research has been really slow-going for most of the last couple years, and running into constant problems that have often been beyond my own ability to solve, thus forcing me to rely on other people's schedules to get help. When research isn't going well, it really affects my mood in a negative way. When I'm not able to be progressing as much as I wish I were, I get a serious case of "grad student guilt," and don't feel like I deserve to go have fun on evenings or weekends. For whatever reason I've also felt kind of disconnected from Penn State Christian Grads, even though I'm the president of the group. I just wasn't taking nearly as active a role in leadership or in the group in general as I previously had. There were other factors contributing to my general dissatisfaction, too, but I think you get the gist. So I decided that I needed to shake things up to try to change my attitude. I decided that I'd be more open to invitations from people to go do things (basically, to be more social). And I feel like I have done a better job of that, and that that's one reason why I haven't blogged nearly as frequently so far in 2010 (I haven't been spending quite as many evenings at home). I've been much more open to saying yes to last-minute or spontaneous invites to dinner or bowling or hanging out or whatever. (And taking up the invite to go bowling with some of the first years back in January allowed me to have quite the set of scores: 73, 99, 137 and 172. Guess I just needed to warm up a bit, haha. It felt great to beat my previous high score of 156 and get my first-ever turkey to start out the fourth game!) I decided that I'd start working out at the gym, both to improve my health and strength and to improve my mood (hooray endorphins!). So I worked out at the hotel in Atlanta with Andrew one night at AMS, bought a spring semester PSU Fitness student membership for $52, and since AMS I have worked out basically every Tuesday and Thursday morning at Rec Hall (less than a 5-minute walk from Walker or the Water Tunnel, so it's really convenient). I usually lift weights for 40-60 minutes or so, and then ride for 20 minutes on the exercise bike to get some cardio work in, since it's been too chilly for my liking to run outside. I convinced Walter to come start working out too, though the last few weeks I've mostly been going by myself, while he's been either too busy or going in afternoons by himself. With the weather starting to get warmer, I'll probably mix in some running a couple times a week too. I also decided that I'd start taking ballroom dance lessons. Yep, ballroom dancing. Kinda surprised myself with that one, too. I figured that'd teach me some useful skills (I do have at least four weddings to attend this year, for example), and also help me gain more social confidence. And maybe I'll be able to meet some new people, who knows. (A few months back, Alex, trying to get me to think about taking ballroom, told me [mostly] jokingly, "If you take ballroom, you'll be married within a year," haha.) The Penn State Ballroom Dance Club has beginners ballroom lessons every Tuesday evening (almost every night they have lessons for some type of dance or level of difficulty, too). I've been there every week this semester except for when I was at AMS in Atlanta, and we've learned the rumba, cha-cha and waltz so far, spending 2-3 weeks on each one. I don't have particularly great coordination (and often find it hard to simply relax!), so it's often a bit of a struggle for me at first to put everything together and get my body and feet to do what they're supposed to, but I've always been able to notice quite a bit of improvement, especially on the second week of learning a particular dance. I'm not taking ballroom lessons with anybody that I know, but I'm genuinely enjoying them, and look forward to them every week. So are all these new habits and mindsets helping me out so far this year? In my opinion, definitely. I do feel much more positive in general, and am enjoying life a bit more this year. And I really have to thank Alex for that in large part, because he's the one that really encouraged and inspired me to try and do all this to help change my attitude this year. Am I totally satisfied with how everything's going in my life currently? No, far from it. But I am much more satisfied than I was late last year, and it feels great.
And now it's been another month without blogging. Sigh. Again, sorry about that. Spring break is almost upon us, and I'm still blogging about something I did six weeks ago. Time for another main highlight of January, complete with heaps of photos! In mid January I went to Atlanta for the 90th Annual Meeting of the American Meteorological Society (AMS), where I presented a paper in the 16th Conference on Air Pollution Meteorology. I had a week to get ready for the conference after returning to campus from Christmas break, and there was enough to do that I didn't quite get my talk or my manuscript finished before I left for Atlanta. I think this was the first time I left for a conference without having my talk completely put together, prepared and practiced, and this actually caused me to stress a bit. And my talk wasn't until Thursday the 21st, the last day of the conference, so I had plenty of time to simultaneously put off prepping and fret about it, but also enjoy being in Atlanta and hanging out with friends. In the end my presentation went really well though, I was happy with it and Sue was happy with it.
The hotel Andrew & I stayed at was the Omni Hotel at the CNN Center in downtown Atlanta, and which was right across the street from the Georgia World Congress Center, the site of the conference. At last year's AMS conference in Phoenix, Alex & I stayed at a hotel that was a half-hour train ride away from the conference center, so it was pretty different being right across the street this year. (Of course, last year Alex & I were both pretty much paying our own way to the conference, and so stayed at a budget motel, whereas this year both Andrew & I had our entire trip to AMS paid for by Meteo & ARL, so a closer, nicer hotel was feasible. :-) And the view from our hotel room was pretty sweet too, a 4th floor view of Olympic Park and the Atlanta skyline.
Before getting picked up by Paul, however, I may have gotten hustled. I was walking to Paul's car in the rain, when a guy came up to me asking if I was from the area. I said no, but he asked if I could help him out anyway. My initial reaction was to ignore him as I did all the other numerous panhandlers in Atlanta, but something about this guy seemed legit. I had a feeling like I was supposed to help him. He told me the story of what happened to him -- something about his car getting broken into, then having to wait two hours for the cops to show up, and now in need of $10 for gas to get back home. He gave me all sorts of reasons as to why I should trust him, and promised that he'd pay me back. I asked him how he'd do that, and he said he'd take down my name and cell phone number and meet me at the CNN Center Starbucks at 9am the next morning. I told him I didn't have a $10 bill, so he asked if I could spare a $20. Like I said earlier, I just had a feeling that I was supposed to help this person. Anyway, the next morning I waited at the Starbucks for a good 45 minutes with no sign of the guy. So maybe he wasn't being genuine about his situation or his need, or his intention to pay me back. Or perhaps he really was in need, but for whatever reason couldn't make it to the CNN Center the next morning. Maybe the reason he didn't call me back was that the piece of paper on which I wrote my phone number got soaked in the rain. Who knows. Whatever the case, I hope my $20 met a genuine need of his. So after waiting around at Starbucks for awhile, I hopped on the MARTA (the metro/subway) up to Buckhead to go to church with Paul at Peachtree Presbyterian Church. Peachtree Pres is such a huge church, they have multiple church services going on simultaneously. When I was there, there was a traditional service happening in the main building, while Paul & I went to the contemporary service in the building across the street. They even had a couple traffic cops on the street so that parishoners could cross the street between buildings, and turn into/out of the parking lots. And for the service we went to, there were multiple remote locations in that building in which one could view the service and watch the sermon (such as a young children's/families area). It was probably the biggest church I've ever attended. Then after church Paul & I drove back to downtown Atlanta to watch the Vikings-Cowboys playoff game at a place called Stats. Stats is unique in that it's one of the only establishments in the world to have a table-top tap -- some of the tables have their own taps, where you can pour your own beer. It keeps track of how many ounces you pour yourself, and then generates a bill when you're done. Pretty slick! It was also a fun place to watch the Vikings dominate Dallas. :-) On Monday night the 18th, Harris Corporation threw their annual GOES (Geostationary Orbiting Earth Satellites) party. Last year it was at a hotel in downtown Phoenix, but this year it was at Atlanta's Georgia Aquarium, just on the other side of Olympic Park from our hotel. The theme, naturally, was "Harris GOES Fishing." The GOES party is awesome because of the free admission, unlimited free food and drinks for conference attendees, but this year there was the extra attraction of wandering around the aquarium. It was fantastic, the whole aquarium was open to us! While there I ran into my friend Laura (both a Penn State and Australia connection there, bit of a story), who then was about to introduce me to her friend Monica, when Monica & I laughed and said, "Oh, we already know each other -- we went to high school together!" Yep, there were two graduates of Cumberland High School at the AMS Conference for the second year in a row. Small world! It was fun catching up with both of them. I meant to get a photo of all three of us, but there were so many people everyone knew at the party and so we got distracted.
Getting home from the conference was kind of interesting too. Fog delayed our departure from ATL on Friday morning the 22nd, so that our connection in IAD was really tight. We landed at gate A2, and were immediately hustled to the front of the line at gate A1 to go straight onto the plane to SCE, the doors of which were closed as soon as we were on board. We were literally in the terminal for no more than a minute -- that's the tightest connection I've ever made. Needless to say my luggage did not make the connection with me, but was instead delivered to my apartment the next morning.
Okay, so, yeah, it's been about a month since I last blogged. Sorry about that. A lot's been going on. I'll try to hit some of the January highlights in an effort to get caught up. Back in early January there was a three-day span in which I got to hang out with three of my best friends, Scott, Alex, and Daniel -- that was pretty sweet! On Monday the 4th my friend Scott drove up to Cumberland from the Twin Cities to hang out. We shot some pool at my parents' house for a bit, and then had a good long lunch and a couple tall beers at Nezzy's in Cumberland. Lots of good conversation! We also ran into our friend Louis from our high school class when we stopped by Louie's Finer Meats (Scott's wife Katie gave him an ultimatum to come back with some hunter's sausage and other goodies from Louie's while he was in Cumberland, haha.) I was very glad to be able to have those four or five hours to hang out with Scott. He's in his last semester at the University of Minnesota, and if he winds up with a job in the DC area after graduation (and it's likely he will), we'll get to hang out a bit more often, since DC is only a 4-hr drive south of State College! That might even be the next time I get to see Scott & Katie, who knows. A couple hours after Scott left, Alex drove up to my parents' house, and then we went over to Nathan & Laura's house in Rice Lake for dinner and a game of Settlers of Catan: Cities and Knights. Alex had never played even regular Settlers before, so Nathan took about an hour to thoroughly and carefully explain to him all the rules for first Settlers and then Cities and Knights. Alex did really well for a first-timer, but I managed to come from behind to win the game. As near as I can remember, that was the first time I'd ever won a game of Settlers (regular or Cities and Knights). So it was enjoyable to break through that barrier and finally win a game! I was glad to make it over to N&L's for a game night while I was home too. On Tuesday the 5th Alex & I drove from Cumberland to Ann Arbor, with a stop in Valparaiso around dinnertime so that Alex could say hi to a couple friends of his. It was a long drive (especially with snow in Michigan making the roads a bit slick), but a good trip. As I always say, a drive that long is always far nicer with a friend.
Coming up (hopefully soon) in Part 2: AMS 2010 in Atlanta.
On Tuesday when I was in the Twin Cities I bought a bunch of ski and snow-gear: a waterproof winter coat ($160 on sale for $40!), snow pants, a ski mask, ski goggles, waterproof gloves, warm socks... I didn't want the elements to be an impediment to my enjoyment of skiing, and I needed better cold-weather gear anyway. After I got all that stuff bought, on Tuesday night Alex & I drove up to Two Harbors. The weather was great for skiing on Wednesday the 30th, with temps in the mid-upper 20s and flurries. And the Christmas Day storm dropped a bunch of snow up there too, so there was a nice, fresh base.
After the bunny hill's tow rope closed around 7pm, we decided to go back to the "Four Pipe" green circle run again. Apparently I forgot pretty much everything I learned on the bunny hill, however. Just like on the bunny hill, once I started going downhill I couldn't stop myself. I think that caused me to panic a bit, and then I couldn't get myself to do the "pizza cutter" well enough to slow me down or get myself to turn -- I wasn't bending my knees together nearly enough, and therefore the inside edges of my skis weren't cutting into the snow. So anyway, on this first evening run down "Four Pipe" I wound up bombing it down the left side of the run, which was hillier than the more evenly sloped right side. About halfway down there was a big hump/hill that I went over, and managed to keep my balance. Thing is, that led right into a second, much larger and steeper hump. I lost my balance and went down in a most spectacular fall and a "yard sale" (my skis and poles scattered on the mountain during my fall). While Alex was trying to catch up to me, he said he saw me disappear over the second hump and then saw a huge cloud of powder go up, and that he heard the people on the lift above say "WHOA!!" Alex told me, "Seeing that wipeout right there was worth the whole price of admission!" That made me laugh, and fortunately the fall didn't hurt. On our second night-time run down "Four Pipe," I got out of control a few more times, and had two very painful, hard falls on ice, landing on the sorest spots on my right hip, side and arm. They were sore because almost every fall of mine early in the day was on my right side, and because I hadn't fallen on them in quite awhile (because I was on the bunny hill), they'd had time to get plenty tender. Anyway, I just laid there for awhile after those two falls, and specifically those two falls put me in a pretty sour mood. I was getting extremely frustrated that I wasn't able to stop/slow myself once I started going downhill, and that I wasn't able to turn like I was on the bunny hill. After those two painful falls I was also then fearing my inevitable falls, unlike the first part of the day when I'd choose to fall and wouldn't feel any pain. "I can't do this" or "I'm tired and sore" was becoming my mantra. A bit further down the mountain when I was going fast and basically out of control, I fell on my left side (finally! my first fall on my left side, haha) to avoid a possibility of a collision with someone. Alex came swooshing up to me and said, "Did you hear what I was yelling at you after you took off?" I said I didn't, but he said he yelled "Fall on your left!!" Maybe I subconsciously heard him, haha. :-) We decided to go for a third night-time run down "Four Pipe." Alex was trying to get me back to basics and keep me in control, going really slowly. If I started going too fast, he'd catch up to me, grab my pole and stop both of us with his "pizza cutter." Obviously I was doing something wrong, if I wasn't able to stop myself but he was able to stop both of us by himself. There was a little plateau we stopped at before starting the last two-thirds of the run, at which point Alex asked me again what I was thinking, but this time he added, "If I hear you say anything more about how you can't do something, I'm going to think that my money today was wasted." It was his way of telling me to stop having the attitude of a 10-year old, and I knew it immediately. He knew it would get my attention and it sure did. I appreciate and am thankful that he was willing to tell me bluntly that I needed to change my attitude. Pretty much right away I decided to stop having such a crappy attitude, and instead be more positive and teachable. There were a couple more times when Alex would catch me if I started going too fast, but on the last one of those, I was going really fast, really unintentionally. Alex finally caught up to me, grabbed my pole, but then I fell, and Alex went sailing over me. Double yard sale! It was the only time Alex fell all day, too. After we both made sure the other was okay, we said to each other that that was fun, but we probably shouldn't do that again. :-) We decided that we should probably just try to make it down to the bottom alive and then call it a night. I think that was the last time I fell, because I did the last third of the hill mostly in control (even though I basically bombed down it), and perfectly turned, slowed down and stopped right at the lift entrance. Back at the top (and after my second consecutive completely successful dismount from the lift) we had to ski part way down the mountain to the chalet, and I had even better control on that run. So after getting so extremely frustrated after my painful falls, at least I ended in a good mood on some positive notes. It was about 8pm when we called it a day, so we were out there for about 7 hours. With how tired and sore I was, I definitely slept extremely well that night too. :-)
[On location in Cumberland, Wisconsin] It's been a good start to Christmas break so far, although not without some minor adventures. Adventure #1: Locking myself out of Alex's apartment in Ann Arbor on Tuesday morning while he was taking a final exam. I was making a few trips taking our stuff out to the car, so that we could leave as quickly as possible when he finished his exam. For one of the trips, I carried a laundry basket and Alex's electric guitar and bass. Outside the main front door to Alex's apartment there's a screen door, and while I was maneuvering around trying to get the inside door shut, the strap on the guitar case got caught on the screen door handle. I unhooked it and put that stuff in the car. When I got back to the apartment to make one more trip, I couldn't open the screen door. Instantly I realized what had happened: the strap on the guitar case, when it got hooked on the door handle, flipped the latch on the door handle, locking it. Sigh. Adventure #2: Visiting the "Home Alone" house! Alex & I planned our route through Chicago to take us past the house that was the filming site for the movie "Home Alone" in Winnetka, Illinois. It was even snowing lightly and all decked out for Christmas, so just like the movie. It's a private residence though, and the family was home eating dinner, so it felt kind of odd standing out in the street taking several pictures of the house. We weren't the only photo-tourists, however, as I saw some flash bulbs go off when a couple other cars drove up as we were leaving. :-)
Adventure #3: Trying to stay awake with late-night driving. Because we didn't leave Ann Arbor until 3:30pm on Tuesday afternoon, we didn't make it to Cumberland until 2:15am (3:15am Eastern time). We were both soooo tired, and very glad to make it to my parents house at last... Adventure #4: Trying to stay awake with late-night driving in a snowstorm. On Wednesday evening I drove down to Cottage Grove, MN, to hang out with my friends Dave, Seth & Ben from Gustavus (Dave's sister Megan was hosting a Christmas & cookies party at her house for a bunch of her friends). We played a couple games of 500, and when I said that I'd drive back when we finished the second game, Ben & Dave decided they'd make me stay longer by not letting Seth & I make a bid (you can't win 500 without making a bid). :-) They kept it going for over two hours before they decided they really should let me start my drive, considering the roads were getting really bad (it had already started snowing and the roads were getting slippery by the time I arrived). I got back to Cumberland at 2am, but fortunately I didn't have to go really slowly until I got to Barron County, where the roads hadn't been plowed at all yet. Driving on ice and snow is fine as long as you go nice and slow. I was exhausted by yet another late-night drive, and slept very well Wednesday night.
My family celebrated Christmas this year on Christmas Eve day. Here are some pictures from Christmas Eve and Boxing Day:
I also have now finally seen the movie "Elf." Lots of people have raved about the movie and how funny it is, but I just hadn't gotten around to watching it for whatever reason. So we watched that as a family on Christmas Day, and I can see what all the fuss is about now. :-) Well, time to get back to my regularly scheduled Christmas break. Maybe I'll write a short post tonight or tomorrow about my thoughts on "Avatar," which I saw last night. I've got plenty more to fit into break this week, including a physics reunion, skiing for the first time ever, and maybe a New Year's Eve party! |